How well do you know your partner? Questions to test each other

The newlywed game, without the studio audience. One of you answers a question about yourself in secret, the other guesses what you said, and then you both find out.

These questions come from the we2gether Guess Their Answer deck. They are small on purpose: cafe orders, window or aisle, tea or coffee. The small ones are the ones you think you know.

120 on this page, 502 in the app

How to use them

  1. Pick a subject. They write or say their answer privately first, so the guess cannot steer it.
  2. The partner guesses. The subject judges whether it was close enough, and gets no say in the score otherwise.
  3. Swap after every question, or every five. Keep it fair.

Sweet

Everyday preferences and habits. Most couples miss more of these than they expect.

  1. What would they order at a cafe?
  2. Window seat or aisle seat?
  3. Sweet or savoury at midnight?
  4. Tea or coffee first thing in the morning?
  5. What is their comfort food when they are unwell?
  6. What is their go to karaoke song?
  7. What food could they eat every day forever?
  8. Beach holiday or mountain cabin?
  9. What is their dream city to live in?
  10. Early riser or night owl, really?
  11. What is their favourite season, and why?
  12. Blanket fort or campfire?
  13. What is their comfort movie?
  14. Extra pillow or extra blanket?
  15. What is the one dessert they never say no to?
  16. Quiet night in or a lazy day outdoors?
  17. What is their favourite way to drink their coffee or tea?
  18. Book or podcast for a long drive?
  19. What is their idea of the perfect Sunday?
  20. Would they rather cook or be cooked for?
  21. What was their first impression of you?
  22. What is the small gift they still remember?
  23. What is their favourite memory from our first year?
  24. What is the first thing they noticed about our first home?
  25. What is the one photo of us they would frame?
  26. What is their favourite memory of meeting my family?
  27. What is the first song they remember us dancing to?
  28. What is the one trip they would relive without changing a thing?
  29. What did they wear the day they knew they liked you?
  30. What is the earliest memory they have of feeling truly happy?
  31. What is the first meal they ever cooked for you?
  32. What is their favourite memory from before we met?
  33. What is the one childhood memory they tell most often?
  34. What is the first thing they remember about our first date?
  35. What is the memory they would choose to live inside forever?
  36. What is the one holiday from childhood they still talk about?
  37. What is the first present you ever gave them?
  38. What is their clearest memory of the day we moved in together?
  39. What is the one memory of their grandparents they treasure most?
  40. What is the first thing they told a friend about you?
  41. What is their favourite memory of a birthday you planned?
  42. What is the one photo from childhood they would never lose?
  43. What would they grab first in a house fire, after the people and pets?
  44. What would they do with a totally free Saturday?
  45. What superpower would they pick?
  46. What would they do first if they won the lottery?
  47. What would they want to learn together with me one day?
  48. If they could live in any decade, which would they choose?
  49. What would they name a pet they do not have yet?
  50. What would they want us to be doing in ten years?
  51. If they could only keep three possessions, what would they choose?
  52. What would they build if money and time did not matter?
  53. What would they want to try together for the first time?
  54. If they had a whole day with no responsibilities, what would they do?
  55. What would they teach our future kids first?
  56. What would they want to plant in a garden of our own?
  57. If they could relive one ordinary day, which would they pick?
  58. What would they want their perfect quiet weekend to look like?
  59. What would they do if they could surprise you for a whole day?
  60. If they could master any skill overnight, what would they choose?

Cheeky

The ones with a bit of bite. Still fine for family.

  1. Who is their celebrity crush they think you do not know about?
  2. What is their most unhinged opinion about food?
  3. What is the one fashion trend they secretly love but will not admit?
  4. What is the trashiest show they will defend to the death?
  5. What is their most controversial opinion about pineapple on pizza?
  6. Which fictional character do they have an embarrassing crush on?
  7. What is the one song they know every word to but never admit?
  8. What is their guilty pleasure snack at two in the morning?
  9. What is the one app they spend more time on than they should?
  10. What is their most dramatic hot take about a kitchen appliance?
  11. Which of their exes would surprise you the most, honestly?
  12. What is the one beauty or grooming routine they will not skip?
  13. What is their most ridiculous opinion about how to load a dishwasher?
  14. What is the one celebrity they think they could take in a fight?
  15. What is their weirdest food combination that actually works?
  16. What is the one reality show they are embarrassingly invested in?
  17. What did they wear on your first date?
  18. When did they know they liked you?
  19. What is the most embarrassing thing they have done to impress you?
  20. Where was your almost first kiss?
  21. What is the cringiest thing they said trying to flirt with you?
  22. What is the most awkward thing that happened on an early date?
  23. What lie did they tell you early on to seem cooler than they are?
  24. What is the most embarrassing thing a friend told you about them?
  25. What is the worst outfit they wore trying to impress you?
  26. What did they text a friend right after your first date?
  27. What is the most obvious sign they liked you that you missed?
  28. What is the story they tell about you that is slightly exaggerated?
  29. What is the most embarrassing thing they have done at a party?
  30. What is the worst pickup line they have ever used, on anyone?
  31. What did they say about you before you two even started dating?
  32. What is the most desperate thing they did to get your attention?
  33. What is the silliest nickname they had for you before you started dating?
  34. What is the most awkward run in they have had with an ex?
  35. What would they do if they ran into their celebrity crush?
  36. What would they say if you asked them to rate your cooking honestly?
  37. What would they do if they won a free tattoo, no questions asked?
  38. Who would they choose in a trolley problem between two exes?
  39. What would they say is their most annoying habit, if pressed?
  40. What would they do if they had to karaoke in front of your parents?
  41. What would they say if their diary got read out loud right now?
  42. What would they do with an unlimited shopping spree and one hour?
  43. What would they say if asked to roast you for one whole minute?
  44. What would they do if you caught them talking to themselves?
  45. Who would they call first if they needed bail money?
  46. What would they confess if truth serum were real for a night?
  47. What would they say is the most overrated thing everyone loves?
  48. What would they do if they had to give a toast at our wedding, unplanned?
  49. What would they say if asked to describe you in three blunt words?
  50. What would they do if they found ten dollars on the floor at your place?
  51. What would they say if forced to pick a least favourite in law?
  52. What would they do if you challenged them to a dance off right now?
  53. Which of my habits do they secretly find annoying?
  54. What lie do they tell most often?
  55. What do they pretend to understand but actually do not?
  56. What is the little white lie they tell most to their friends?
  57. What do they Google that they would never admit out loud?
  58. What is the one thing they lie about to seem more interesting?
  59. What is the pettiest thing they have ever held a grudge over?
  60. What do they secretly judge people for at the supermarket?

Play it in the meadow

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Questions people ask

What is a good how well do you know me question?
One with a specific, checkable answer. What would they order at a cafe is better than what do they like, because there is a right answer and the subject can judge the guess.
Can we play this apart?
Yes. In we2gether the subject answers whenever they like, the partner guesses when they are free, and the reveal waits for both of you.

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